Using Personality Development To Fast-Track Success

Personality development plays a very crucial part of a person’s success. Many people have that feeling of inadequacy that has got to be conquered. For us to be a success and get that success fast, we must possess a positive attitude towards everything we do in our life.

You will find that the majority of people have got a negative voice in their heads that stop them from doing anything. These voices discourage us most of the time. This will make us feel that we are not good enough and we cannot make it. And so with this, we cannot be able to see past our destiny and obscurity thoughts. And these causes us not to move forward due to our poor belief of ourselves. To get success fast you must eliminate those negative voices in the first place.

There are other people, who will show an attitude of supremacy. This could be a true feeling or just to cover the complex feeling of inferiority that we have within us. There is nobody in this wide world who would accept their weak points. People do not like an attitude of pride. However, for you to be liked and be respected you must have the correct feelings of yourself, this is what will bring about your personality in good shape.

Then there are those people who are easy to judge and once you see them you spot a feeling of no-confidence in them. They easily broadcast a speck on their friend's eyes while they themselves carry heavy logs in their own eyes. This greatly tampers with your relation. This is because some will tend to look down on them and you will find that they are quickly turned off. You cannot control other people if you do not know yourself and your ability to do something. You must practice empathy and be helpful to others.

Your success in the future greatly depends on the personality development plans that you have. You have to balance between self-confidence and meekness. Humility means that you have a different view of yourself. This is knowing that those who are around you are better in some ways and you are also better in other ways.

People usually think that when you are humble then you are weak and you cannot stand for your rights. When you are humble, it does not mean that you must put yourself underfoot or below others. You must accept the strength that you have, and the weakness that you have because, in a real sense, this is what you are. What you think of as strength may be a weakness depending on the context of the incidence.

When you know your weaknesses, you will be able to work on them and make them your strengths. Humility means that you are truthfully placing yourself in the right position. You would possibly be struggling but that does not mean that you look down upon yourself.

"The Lord is in charge of human success, 

and He is the one who honors the legislator." 

Sirach 10:5, NLT.

Personality Development At Childhood
The main factor that pressures or bring about personality development, is in place and very much functional, when the babies are still in the mother’s womb, however, the doctors oppose this. The people who do psychiatry have come up with their own theories which state that the personality of a human being grows in a particular progressive period the minute we are born.

They are however exploratory and not definite in the real sense. These phases are not there, the way the psychiatric theories claim. The supposed personality periods hypothetically come about in ways associated with physical stages of growth like crawling, walking, and running. However, whatever our bodily development stages look suitable, this is not exactly what happens when it comes to our personalities.

Let us first talk about how personality starts. It begins to evolve when we are still in our mothers’ wombs. The main factors that power personality is finely reinforced before one gets to early childhood. Every person's intention, attitude, way of thinking, feelings, actions, and the way he reacts influence one's personality growth negatively or positively.

There are two major ways that a person develops his personality. One can develop his personality with the right choice or the second one is that he can develop with the wrong choices. This will greatly determine your personality type which people will use to describe you. You will find that those people who are mean, develop poisonous personalities within no time due to numerous ongoing, self-centered, wrong, deceitful, and immature choices.

On the other hand, a positive and fit personality is formed with many ongoing, kindness, right, true religious teachings, love, honesty, and admirable dependable choices. You will find that most of us, who are mean people, have made a choice to look at life in either an angry way or in a fearful way. The particular way becomes the basic way that we inconsiderately control, as we try to get whatever we want or to evade what we do not want. This happens in many circumstances and relations. And so you will find that you are fearful or basically angry, that is how your personality will bring about itself in the long-run.

The next thing that we are going to look at in personality development is learning. There are numerous theories that claim that learning is the main factor in the development of personality and manners. It is obvious that there are many mental and physical activities that need to be learned. This however does not apply in personality development and characteristics. These are two very different things. You should note that other psychologists claim that personality does not rely on learning and neither is it innate at conception, it only grows at the early stages of childhood.

But since personality development is defined as the development of the organized pattern of behaviors and attitudes that makes an individual distinctive, then we can be convinced to agree, at least at this moment, with other psychologists who have found that personality development occurs by the ongoing interaction of temperament, character, and environment.

Since personality is what makes a person a unique person, and it is recognizable soon after birth, then a child's personality has several components: temperament, environment, and character. Temperament is the set of genetically determined traits that determine the child's approach to the world and how the child learns about the world. There are no genes that specify personality traits, but some genes do control the development of the nervous system, which in turn controls a person's behavior.

The second component of personality comes from adaptive patterns related to a child's specific environment. Most psychologists agree that these two factors—temperament and environment— are the keys influences to the development of a person's personality to the most part. Temperament, with its dependence on genetic factors, is sometimes referred to as "nature," while the environmental factors are called "nurture."

During the first two years of a child's life, an infant goes through the first stage of learning the basic trust or mistrust. If the Child is well-nurtured and loved, then the infant will develop trust and security and a basic optimism which will play an important role in fast-tracking success in his or her life later at adulthood or maturity. On the opposite side, if the child is badly handled, then the infant becomes insecure and learns basic mistrust and the child will have a hard time attaining success in his or her life later in adulthood or maturity.

Here's a video by Brian Tracy, the author of the book: The New Psychology of Achievement. Here he emphasizes the importance of having a personal development plan in order to achieve your goals.